Monday, January 18, 2010

This dog is going to drive me nuts.


When my mother said we were nuts for getting a puppy the weekend before Christmas she hit the nail on the head. Bibi (Beatrix) is only three days younger than Elsie. She and Rudy are big buddies. They play all day. This was the whole idea. Get Rudy a new friend after we had to put our dear Riley dog to sleep. However, you forget how annoying training a new puppy can be, until you are in the midst of it.

Bibi is kind of "duh" as my Daddy says. Actually, he said he doesn't think she's stupid...just a puppy and learning. Gah, I hope so. At any rate, the first week we had her she ran full speed ahead into our pool. Like, she didn't notice the large body of water in our backyard? When she is ready to come back in the house from doing her business outside, she will run smack into the glass in our sliding glass door. If she is on the screened in porch for a little while and wants in the house and I cannot get there right that minute, she will launch herself into the glass sliding door. This is particularly hysterical because it makes a soft "thud" against the glass. To further my suspicion that she may be stupid, she doesn't even know her name yet. This is almost a month after using her name hundreds of times each day.

But the thing that grates on my nerves the most: bark. It is the most high pitched, shrill, loud bark. Such an assertive voice for a small dog. She uses her voice all the time. It is enough to drive a girl crazy couped up in a house with two dogs and a baby all day.

Let's hope she's not stupid, because as my Mother says "you can't fix stupid."

In other news: my family left on Saturday. They were so helpful while they were here. We have a freezer full of food my Mom cooked while she was here. She accompanied me to the Pediatric Opthamologist last Thursday. Elsie had been diagnosed with a mild case of Retinopathy of Prematurity (ROP) while in the NICU, so we had our follow up last week. Elsie has no more signs of ROP and does not have to go back until July when she will be nine months. This is just to check that her eye alignment is correct. Here is a wikipedia link about ROP if you are interested:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Retinopathy_of_prematurity

The appointment went well. We had the first appointment of the day, and the nurses let us wait in the examination room so we weren't in the waiting room with the other patients. This was the first time I used our stroller, the Bertini B5 and it was great. If you are looking for a single stroller, I recommend it. The way the car seat clicks into the stroller is so amazing. Both the canopies on the car seat and the stroller are generous. I put them both down, so no one could see Elsie and ask "oh can I see her?" No ma'm.

We have an appointment with Early Childhood Intervention on Thursday. They will weigh her. I am anxious to see how much weight she has gained. Part of me wants to buy a scale so I can weigh her regularly, but on the other hand I think it would just stress me out. I'm just going to do the best I can and see what the pediatrician says next week. She has an appointment next week to get her second Synagis shot and take her blood to check her Hematocrit.

Love Y'all,
Ellen

Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Our First Week

We survived our first week. Elsie is a big fan of her swing and the bouncy seat. I have learned that I can set the swing in our bath tub, put her in the swing, and then quickly take a shower. We are on our second bottle warmer. PS...when the box says you need AVENT bottles, the Dr. Brown's bottles are probably going to break said warmer. I got a new one that you can use with "most bottles" that is working beautifully. Since we took Elsie home from the hospital on January 3, I've been to Wally World, Target, and the pediatrician's office for a total of 4 hours outside our home. It doesn't help that we recently experienced the coldest weather since the late eighties in Southeast TX.

Elsie still sleeps a lot. Like 20 hours out of 24. It is insane. I am working on getting her days and nights straight. She is definitely more alert at night, but puts herself to sleep in about 30 minutes after I lay her down after feedings in the middle of the night. Today she was up from about 2:30 until 5:30 so maybe she'll sleep better tonight. Tummy time was fun and hopefully wore her out.

My family is here this week. We are having a good time cooking, cleaning, and organizing among the regular baby duties. My mother is doing the cooking and organizing. Chicken and Dumplings are on the menu tonight. Yums tums.

What else? Work has agreed to let me work part time from home for a while. I am to work 20 hours a week on a laptop they provide. This deal has been in the works since the week after Christmas and they are still working on getting a laptop for me. Gotta love corporate America. In the mean time I am enjoying not having to work and taking care of Elsie Lou.

This makes me wonder though. Those of you who are stay at home moms: what do you do to earn money (if anything?). Friends of mine make and sell jewelry, others monogram, embroider, and smock cutie pie kids clothes. What do you do besides take care of the kiddos ?

Love Y'all,
Ellen

Wednesday, January 6, 2010

Today is My Original Due Date

When I was pregnant with Elsie my due date was January 6, 2010. In preemie world, this means today is Elsie's "adjusted or corrected" birth date. Today she is 40 weeks, full term. This means for milestones (such has holding her head up) we use her adjusted age. Not her 12 week chronological age.

We went to our first pediatrician visit yesterday. He advised that we treat Elsie as a newborn. Bascially, if she is eating, sleeping, crying, pooping, and peeing that is good. She is doing these things. The only thing I've noticed thus far is she has her days and nights mixed up.

Next week we go to the Retinologist for a follow up of her eye exams. Like a lot of preemies, Elsie has a mild case of Retinopathy of Prematurity. The blood vessels in her retina are continuing to grow normally and the Retinologist expects that they will grow and correct themselves. You may or may not know that the eyes are one of the last things to develop in the womb. Full term babies can even have problems with their eyes.

Early Childhood Intervention (ECI) will come to our home in two weeks to do an inital visit to determine if Elsie is developing as she should. The occupational therapist in the NICU determined that she is acting a little younger than her 39-40 weeks. So ECI will come out to determine if she is continuing to develop, and do an assessment to identify if any additional therapy is needed.

You thought we were done with the doctors, right? At least now we don't have to drive to the hospital. I am really enjoyng being able to care for Elsie in our home. She has such a sweet disposition thus far. She really only cries if she is dirty or hungry.

Love y'all,
Ellen

Monday, January 4, 2010

She's HOME!







Praise God from whom all blessings flow! Right now she is waking up and hungry. Just wanted to post a few pics and tell everyone thank you thank you! Elsie is proof of the power of prayer. Thanks to all of you for the prayers, thoughts, and kind words. Certainly we could not have done it without you. Once I've had time to process everything I'll post more. For now, enjoy the pics!
Love Y'all,
Ellen, Ryan, and Elsie Louise :)